PAIN IS NOT THE END

Oh yes!! You heard me right! Pain is scary, It's the last emotion we wanted to crave for. But, it's not the end of the world. Right??

A lot times people talk about being scared of death. But, I think it's not something we should be scared of. It's a life process. We have life spans. Even 'ocean quahog' (a specie of edible calm) too had a life span, it's 507 years. We humans of- course don't have a life span like this long, and it's for a reason. Humans are less constructive minded and more destructive ones. So, one thing can exist at a time; either humans for 507 years or Earth??

Saving Earth is better.

The pain of losing people is normal. It's human.

But, what scares me more is that feeling of uselessness, when I won't be able to do anything. That is the nightmare.

I was watching this Arrowverse show lately ( I'm obsessed with them currently ). So, the protagonist, who saves the world from evils , was unable to save the man she loves. So, she was heart broken and guilty. During her talk with her boss, she tells her that she will never- ever be able to get out of this suffering and pain. And the lady ( her boss ) says a very amazing thing. She tells her that, this is what she used to think about the child birth pain, but it does goes off.

To be really honest, In the starting of this year , I lost some people that I loved. I've lost any sign of future conversations with them. I do lost a part of my sanity in the process. I used to feel guilty about things that were born out of imagination and fear. The pain sometimes used to be so intense and magnified at unbearable rates. But, it's only one thing we as humans should remember ; Acceptance is a very powerful thing. No matter, how scary it could be. We cannot outrun pain. So, it's better to learn how to make it less toxic.

There is no shame in admitting it that we humans are made up of elements that makes us vulnerable. And I think it's a gift and not a curse.