COHERENT: A UNIFIED WHOLE

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So, according to Mayan civilization, today that is 21st June 2020 is supposed to be doomsday where earth is apparently going to end once and for all.So, even if earth's dying let's just end every freaking thing on a good note. Btw I know nothing's gonna happen.

So, I have talked about this thing long ago , approx a year ago. I wrote an article about it where I was trying to explain the difference between falling in love and being in love. Where I also talked about my personal experience of falling in love but not being in love and I concluded the article hoping that I'll find love real soon. 
http://vinnieishere.blogspot.com/2019/01/love-is-divine-its-passionate.html

People might say that love is a very beautiful emotion but for me love is a very healthy emotion. Since I have been into this situation, that's why I'm telling you that your life does chances a bit once to start loving somebody else apart from yourself. All our lives we have been taught about the importance of self love but I personally feel romantic love is also necessary. And let's say this firmly that "jitne ups and down career life mein nhi aate usse zyda love life mein aa jate h". And we can't really help this; every freaking day we not only learn to love more or to devote more but we learn to appreciate even the odds.This is all crazy how somebody else presence can raise your heart beat. 

When we are in a romantic relationship, we usually expect certain things from our partner. And it's fine to expect things. But we should learn this fact that how immensely and passionately we love ourselves and that's why how easily we forgive ourselves for not meeting up to our expectations; so , likewise in romantic relationships we need to follow the same rule. You can't let your heart break so easily every time you partner disowns your expectations. No, you really can't. We personally need to understand this fact that expectations are short lived and love is beyond that. 

Next thing that you need to be more clear about in a romantic relationship is that are you loving your partner because he loves you the same way back or it's because you choose to love him for the kind of person you vibes with? Ask yourself.

There's this picture in my granny's house that says "Love's greatest virtue is Patience". Every body have those times when you feel this urge of breaking up with the partner mostly because he's unable to meet up to your expectations or you might start losing the vibe but Patience guys Patience. If it's a bad day, it's gonna pass... If it's a bad year, it's also gonna pass... And if it's a bad partner, kiddos why on earth would that stay, it's definitely gonna pass . Taking a break is definitely better than breaking up, I guess.

Space and Time. It applies to any love form not necessarily romantic relationships. You should know when to give the other person space and time so that the person doesn't lose his own individuality. 

Okay, so I have actually talked a lot now. Let me just conclude it all. See, in romantic relationships it's important to love the other person the same way you love yourself because apparently you are vibing like a single soul together. You have same frequencies, you are coherent with that person now. So you definitely should love, care and respect that person with the same magnitude you love yourself.
LONG TO LIVE , NOT AS A PHANTOM BUT AS A MAGIC , I MUST SAY TO THE AUDIENCE

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